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The Older Men’s Network
Where Friends Become Mates
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The Purpose of OMNi
OMNi (Older Men’s Network incorporated) is an organisation for men who are over the
age of 55 and no longer in full-
The isolation and loneliness most men experience, even in the company of others, is relieved in an OMNi group meeting by the men letting go of competition and fear developed from years in the workplace and its culture. Many men acknowledge in their group that this is the first time in their lives they have experienced this new type of relationship with other men.
Often, retirement causes a dramatic change in a man’s life. Being able to talk to others who have gone through the same experiences is very helpful. At a typical OMNi meeting, men talk about their life stories, their joys, their hopes and their sorrows. Worthwhile friendships result from these open and confidential discussions. Most of the members are married, and find that OMNi is a welcome change from the normal round of domestic duties and family obligations. In fact many wives have been instrumental in encouraging their husbands to join OMNi, but that does not mean that widowers or single men are not welcome.
The groups offer a place where men discuss things on a little deeper level than is usual in a club or hotel atmosphere. OMNi men are free to discuss any topic relating to their lives. Life stories and experiences are very popular. Personal issues, health issues, retirement problems and relationship issues can be revealed in a safe environment where all matters remain confidential to the group.
Members have shown an increased interest in retirement, better communication and listening skills with family members, friends and others. They feel a clearer sense of direction and purpose in their lives. This then leads to greater willingness to become involved in family and community events. Wives and others report improved companionship and reduced time spent in isolation.
All men need the companionship and authentic support of peers they can trust, in a climate of confidentiality and caring as found in an OMNi group. These factors empower a man to take greater control of his life, leading to a richer, fuller and more satisfying existence.